I consider sex as part of my ministry to my hubby. I want to build him up. Intimacy is a way to do that. After all, isn’t his love language Physical Touch??
Pour good into his heart. Tell him of my respect and regard for him.
I just check with him and make sure he’s feeling loved.
I think there have been two times that I have been intimate ❤ with hubby during my fast. The rest of the times he’s been like “no. I’m good. ” During my previous fast ,we agreed to abstain.
I just try to listen to us and the Holy Spirit.
A wise woman once told me “the most important part of your ministry to your hubby can often be sexual.”