I used to get my feelings hurt a lot, with my girlfriends esp.
I decided at some point to just tweak my thinking a bit, and turn that FOMO or whatever
into imagining all the harmless scenarios which would explain the problem.
I’m happy to think of them enjoying that other person without me. I want my friends to be happy. they might be sick or have sick kids.
This is probably a little close to home right now for them so they are avoiding it.
This is about their own unfinished business–I will just pray for God to help them with that: I want my friends to be happy.
Maybe they are just maxed out and overloaded right now, and they’re skipping my activity because they know I don’t judge and get offended.
I try to stop ✋ those little mind movies I make for myself about my friend,
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and instead give them a break,
assume the best,