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A little trick that helps me communicate with my adult special needs daughter–put the right hat on. (One time it was a sock because I was sick in bed……it still worked)

• Physical reminder for both of us
• Breaks habits from younger years
• Reminds me to listen, not train
• “I’ve heard of some people trying _____”
• “I’m sure you’ll figure it out. You’re smart and determined. “
• “I like you.”
• “Let me know how it goes, k?”
• Goes above or beside brain fog for both of us
• She’s not there to meet my needs
• I’m not there to meet hers either
• Just be.
• Like my husband says: Let. Her. Talk.